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Party Time
A Grandparent's Guide to Baby Shower Gift Ideas
By Jessica Williams
The baby shower is a great time to give a pregnant woman gifts. In fact, baby shower gifts are very special to the mom-to-be and many keep a list of what they received at their shower in their baby book. There are numerous items to choose from, and many guests like to give gifts they found useful with their own babies. If you aren't sure what to give, do some investigating before you begin your shopping.
If possible, find out what other guests will be giving so she won't receive duplicates. And more importantly, find out what mom needs and wants. The parenting methods she wishes to practice are also important to know before buying gifts.
If she plans to breastfeed, bottles, pacifiers, formula and other accessories that help with bottle feeding would not be appropriate and probably won't be used. Instead, you could buy her nursing pads, nursing shirts or a breastfeeding book. Similarly, if she plans to return to work a few weeks after baby is born, a breast pump or storage containers for expressed breastmilk would be a great gift.
Some parents wish to use a specific parenting style once baby is born. This can also effect the items they need. If a mom expresses her desire to practice Attachment Parenting (a parenting method coined by Dr. William Sears where parents carry baby frequently and respond to baby's needs by providing closeness rather than using "gadgets"), a baby swing, play pen, or other solitary items may not be great gifts. Instead, you may give a sling, backpack carrier or nursing pillow.



