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The Male Pregnancy Experience

Feeling Her Pregnancy Pain

"My personal morning sickness started soon into the first trimester," says Joe Robinson, husband of Jess and father of a 5-month-old baby girl. And that's not all Robinson experienced during his wife's pregnancy: He shared just about every pregnancy symptom with her but labor. He gained almost 25 pounds, developed cravings, suffered nausea and tossed and turned at night. What Robinson experienced is called a sympathetic pregnancy or Couvade Syndrome.

Couvade in its narrowest sense refers to the practice in which a father simulates labor and childbirth shortly after the birth of his child to demonstrate his role in reproduction or to ease the mother's pain by sharing in it. It has come to mean, however, the father's sharing of sundry pregnancy symptoms with his wife anytime during the pregnancy or shortly thereafter.

With Couvade Syndrome, males can develop the symptoms of pregnancy just like their wives.

With Couvade Syndrome, males can develop the symptoms of pregnancy just like their wives. The frequency of Couvade is unknown, but some researchers estimate that it affects from 11 to 65 percent of expectant fathers. The onset of male "pregnancy" symptoms usually starts near the end of the first trimester and generally stops with the birth of the child. Couvade also seems to be a universal phenomenon, with cases reported across cultures, continents and centuries.

But what causes Couvade? For years, researchers have sought the answer to that question using cultural or psychological reasoning. For example, in a 1994 article, a group of Italian researchers wrote that Couvade appears "to be the psychosomatic equivalent of primitive rituals of initiation into paternity." And in a 1991 article, Dr. H. Klein of the University of Texas Medical Branch reviewed some of the possible causes of Couvade such as "somatized anxiety, psuedo-sibling rivalry, identification with the fetus, ambivalence about fatherhood or parturition envy."


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Anonymous says
1 week, 1 day ago

I personally hate that my husband is going through this. I am extremely nauseous and tired all day, everyday. I had to quit my job and he is about to lose his because he is sick every morning and doesn't want to go! I need him to be the strong one. The one that holds things together when I am too sick to do it myself. If this lasts until after the baby is born I don't know how on earth I am going to handle it!!!!

Anonymous says
July 9, 2010

Its weird that my husband feels more pregnant then i do he had the morning sickness, cravings, weight gain, the lack of sleep, while i was left with the mood swings the up side to this is that we both are experiencing the back pain in the exact same spot the perk is that he understands me and gives great massages

Anonymous says
June 6, 2010

My experience with my husband has been amazing and has brought us even closer. We have had weight gain, morning sickness, mood swings, and even know what the other is craving before anything is said..We laugh alot about this special time we are sharing together right now. What better to end it then with the birth our our brand new baby boy Ayden...that in which we both have shared the trials of pregnancy together, making it an easier load to bare..Makes me happy to know that we are a team that will share everything that comes with being parents.

Anonymous says
June 1, 2010

I don't know how to feel other than complete frustration, my husband stays tired and just wants to sleep leaving me to do everything eventhough he is on leave....

Anonymous says
April 30, 2010

My baby dad is sleeping alot an had mornign sickness worse then me.

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