It's an often-overlooked but prevalent phenomenon, and one that hasn't been studied in detail. The scenario: A couple decides to have a baby, but after being unsuccessful, turns to adoption – only to discover during the adoption process that they are also pregnant.
When Michelle Wolf and her husband, Patrick Register, of Charleston, S.C., decided to try for a baby three years ago, they never expected the experience to bring them anything but joy. But, "After three miscarriages and a lot of emotional and physical pain from those experiences, I decided I really didn't need to get pregnant to satisfy any need in me," says Wolf. "We just wanted to be parents. Both my husband and I felt that there are so many children in this world that need love; why not rescue one of them instead of creating yet another mouth to feed on this planet?"
The scenario: A couple decides to have a baby, but after being unsuccessful, turns to adoption – only to discover during the adoption process that they are also pregnant. |
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The couple decided to pursue a domestic adoption, a process that took them 10 months to complete. The final step, a home study, was to be scheduled next, but by the time the state was ready to schedule, Wolf was already 5 months pregnant. She'd discovered her pregnancy a month after finding out that she and her husband had been approved to adopt.
Now their adoption has been put on hold, but only for a little while. "First I need to get through this birth and at least a year or two of raising our son," says Wolf. "I hope to set up the adoption process once again in about two years and adopt a little girl a year later or so – about three years from now. I look forward to the experience of meeting our little person and welcoming her into our home."
It happened to me. I actually started a web site exploring this. Please visit, and add your own story
www.5monthsapart.com
hello i;d like to ask a question about conception at my which is 47 i know i am very old and i only have one good ovaries left but what me and my hubby would like to know what are my other options as to have a baby
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