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Special Advice for Pregnant Women Over 35

The Older Mom-Special Advice for Pregnant Women Over 35Like many other women, Donna Griffin from Green Oaks, Ill., put off having a baby until later in life. She was busy working on her career, relocating around the country and enjoying the challenges in her life.

"I was doing all that I ever dreamed and more," says Griffin. "However, by the time I was 38 years old, I owned a beautiful home in a northwestern suburb of Chicago but was alone and had no one to share my life with. I had always thought I would be married and have children, but at the age of 38, I finally realized that I had to make my personal life as much [of] a priority as my career."

Worry and fear seem be common denominators among older pregnant women.

Griffin met and married her husband, and they immediately began trying for children. By this time, Griffin was over 40 and it wasn't as easy to conceive as they had hoped. It took four years to conceive, and the disadvantages of being an older pregnant woman soon became obvious.

"Because it was so hard to finally get pregnant, I tended to worry a great deal and wonder if the baby was OK," says Griffin. "I was nervous at every OB appointment and couldn't wait to hear the baby's heartbeat and get reassurance that everything was progressing OK."


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Anonymous says
2 weeks, 4 days ago

I am almost 40 and 6 months pregnant with our first child. Which we found out last week is a boy. I tried so many ways and years to get pregnant, it just never happened. I was at the point of " not being able to concieve " when we got the news! This is a definate miracle. I also feel the same way this woman in the article does at every visit. I just want constant reasurance the baby is OK, because of trying so hard and getting nothing for so long. Thank you, you gave me more hope for my little one!

Surprisedb says
May 8, 2009

I have just found out that I'm pregnant again, at 43! Huge surprise and I'm very nervous. My husband and I keep looking at each other and giggling.

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