Divorce or Breakups During Pregnancy

My husband of 3.5 years and I can't get along. Think differently about everything and fight all the time. I think we may get a divorce... I am so sad. I love this man and am 3 months pregnant. How do I do this? How do I do this without hurting this baby with all my emotions and stress? Anyone, can you help???

Iam currently 3months pregnant. I was in a 3yr relationship with someone who I had known for a long period of time. On January 22, 2010 my boyfriend said to me, "I gave us some thought and I think its "Best" if we seprate". He said that he didn't know if he was ready to be a family man or be with me long-term. He wanted to be with other females, he replied when I asked, "Why now?" I cried so hard for him asking why over and over. I had to realize that I have to move and let him be with other females.

Im almost 7 months pregnant. Have been married for 2.5 years. Since i got pregnant his work just started taking all of his time. at first i understood and even felt sorry for him working so many hours and nightshifts (he is a policeman), but then it just got out of hand. i dont know if he has another woman, but i dont believe he is at work all that time. Finally i left home and went to my parents 2 weeks ago, after he promised to come back one day from shooting practice where they satyed for 3 days in a nother town, and eventually came back the next. For 6 months i was taking care of the house, garden, his big dog and waiting for him to sometimes show up and keep me company. Once i had enough, this 30 yr old idiot escaped to his parents as well. He doesnt sleep home at nights, and keeps telling me that he does. May be its not his mother's taht he spends teh nights at, but i just cant be bothered to check him out. He has made me upset and angry so many times during pregnancy, i dont even want to mention him as a father on the birth certificate. He never calls, is always busy when i call him to tell him things needing to be done, since we r still married. Like going to take care of his dog. He is such a coward, its hard to believe i didnt see him for waht he was when i was getting married to him. We both planned the baby, but he said that i have alienated him from the pregnancy (i wonder how, he never expressed any initiative. Im so angry and hurt. I really hope this will pass. Im planning to start divorce procedure after the abby is born, coz it would be just too much for me to handle right now. Im really hoping for the best though. and I'm wishing you all girls to stay strong and know ur onw worth. Men r just not worth it. They r quite shallow creatures. Well at least the one i have met so far...

I am 7 1/2 months pregnant. This was a planned pregnancy but after a fight one night during my 4th month, my husband decided he didn't want to be with me anymore after 3 1/2 years of marriage and dating for 9 years. We really do not see eachother, he rarely asks how i'm doing but "can't wait for the baby to get here". I think he's the happiest 30 year old living with mom and dad. He won't get help with me to try to fix issues because he says he doesn't have faith that we can fix things!. He's a genuine winner! Anyway, I'm pulling through for my unborn beautiful duaghter but hate the fact that we would even have to talk about visitation and things. I have a lawyer and have filed. I don't want to drag this any longer then it has to. If he wanted to fix things he would have been there for me more than 3 times these past few prego months. I deserve much better!

My husband and i have been married for over five years now and about four months ago a man tried to make my marriage end by starting stuff between my husband and i like saying we was sleeping together and thats not even true!!!! Now its December and weve been trying to work things out and stuff keeps coming up it is two weeks before christmas and he tells me he is leaving and packs most of his stuff and leaves mind you we have a four year old son he just takes with him!!! I am six and a half months pregnant and i am lost and dont know what to do at all. I am 24 years old and have not been single since i was 15. Im just really hoping there is a god out there that has heard my tears and knows im in pain and will bring him back.