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Twins & Multiples

Boy-Girl Twins

When You're Expecting Male and Female Twins

One of Each-Expecting Boy/Girl TwinsMarna Schacknies has 15-month-old boy/girl twins, and she's learning that there's a lot of confusion out there about male and female twin pairs. "Most people don't know the difference between identical and fraternal twins," says Schacknies of Berkeley Heights, N.J. "We are usually asked, 'Are they both boys?' despite the fact that my daughter is always wearing something girly and usually pink. And right after we tell people, 'They are a boy and a girl,' they will inevitably ask, 'Are they identical?'"

If you're expecting a set of opposite-sex twins, you're probably already bracing yourself for questions from the general public – and you may have some questions yourself! Here is advice on what to expect and how to prepare.

It's a Boy – and a Girl!
Boy/girl sets are always dizygotic, or fraternal, twins. Dizygotic twinning occurs when two separate ova (eggs) are fertilized by two different sperm. Dizygotic twins aren't always male and female. In fact, there is equal chance of them being two boys or two girls.

Ultrasound studies have shown multiples interacting in utero.

No matter how similar your little ones may appear, they are not identical. The term "identical" refers only to monozygotic twinning. This occurs when one ova is fertilized by one sperm and then divides into two afterwards.

From a genetic standpoint, boy/girl twins aren't different than any two full siblings who were born at different times. However, a powerful bond often exists between these little ones.


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Anonymous says
December 31, 2009

I have a twin brother, and that bond is still strong.
When people find out I have a twin brother I still get asked if we're identicle. I always say "yes, except he has brown hair and eyes, I have light hair and green eyes. He's darker complected and I'm really fair. He grows a beard and moustache and I shave mine off." I get funny/dirty looks for saying that but come on, Identicle? So many people automatically think that if you're a twin you must be identicle. Until I explaine the diff.

Anonymous says
August 6, 2009

girl twin seems much more alert during awake times and sleeps for longer stretches of time. boy twin typically feeds 3-4 hourly. Both are gorgeous though.

Anonymous says
July 31, 2009

when she4 cries he doesn't. vice versa. much relief!

Anonymous says
July 22, 2009

THE GIRL ALWAYS SEEMS TO BE THE AGGRESSIVE ONE IN THIS MIX OF TWINS

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